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By\u0165 mu vzorom!","description":"1. v \u010dl\u00e1nku s\u00fa mnoh\u00e9 veci prehnan\u00e9 a vyhranen\u00e9, preto\u017ee pr\u00e1ve na tak\u00fdchto veciach sa najlep\u0161ie vidia chyby, ktor\u00fdch sa dop\u00fa\u0161\u0165ame na v\u00fdchove det\u00ed \u2013 … ","datePublished":"2025-02-28","dateModified":"2025-02-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.remivar.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.remivar.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/11f8c6ff4d174e1ebef1d6401491d0892ff6534e7a3312fbf752a8f90a4375cd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/11f8c6ff4d174e1ebef1d6401491d0892ff6534e7a3312fbf752a8f90a4375cd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"remivar.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.remivar.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a283763_w2035_t1513190058.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.remivar.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a283763_w2035_t1513190058.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.remivar.sk\/ako-z-chlapca-vychovat-chlapa-byt-mu-vzorom\/","wordCount":536,"articleBody":"1. v \u010dl\u00e1nku s\u00fa mnoh\u00e9 veci prehnan\u00e9 a vyhranen\u00e9, preto\u017ee pr\u00e1ve na tak\u00fdchto veciach sa najlep\u0161ie vidia chyby, ktor\u00fdch sa dop\u00fa\u0161\u0165ame na v\u00fdchove det\u00ed \u2013 bud\u00faceho pokolenia 2. je rozdiel medzi \u013eahostajn\u00fdm \u010dlovekom so sklonom k n\u00e1siliu, z\u017een\u0161til\u00fdm mu\u017e\u00ed\u010dkom bez schopnosti postara\u0165 sa o rodinu, a pr\u00edjemn\u00fdm, citliv\u00fdm mu\u017eom. Je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 vedie\u0165, \u017ee deti vstreb\u00e1vaj\u00fa to, \u010do sa doma rob\u00ed viac, ako to, \u010do im rodi\u010dia hovoria. Ak im rodi\u010dia hovoria, aby sa nenechali zl\u00e1ka\u0165, a nechodili so spolu\u017eiakmi pi\u0165, aby si r\u00e1no pred \u0161kolou z,,frajeriny\u201c nezap\u00e1lili \u2013 to je pekn\u00e9. Ale ak pr\u00edde die\u0165a domov, a tam le\u017e\u00ed na pohovke s ovl\u00e1da\u010dom v ruke podnapit\u00fd otecko, ktor\u00fd ob\u010das preru\u0161\u00ed svoju,,\u010dinnos\u0165\u201c, aby si zap\u00e1lil, \u010di sko\u010dil na mal\u00fa, cestou z ktorej nakri\u010d\u00ed na mamku… die\u0165a to vid\u00ed a vstreb\u00e1va, \u010di sa o tom doma rozpr\u00e1va \u010di nie. A k \u010domu to m\u00f4\u017ee vies\u0165? \u00b7 (jedn\u00e9ho z) rodi\u010dov znen\u00e1vid\u00ed, preto\u017ee sa mu bude protivi\u0165 \u017eivot v dom\u00e1cnosti, v ktorej sa nem\u00e1 kam ukry\u0165 pred atmosf\u00e9rou, ktor\u00fa vytvorili rodi\u010dia \u00b7 die\u0165a postupne vyrastie a bude (pribli\u017ene) tak\u00fdm, ako jeho,,vychov\u00e1vatelia\u201c \u00b7 die\u0165a sa upne na jedn\u00e9ho z rodi\u010dov, ktor\u00fd menej holduje alkoholu \u010di in\u00fdm neduhom \u2013 ak je to otec: \u010dasto nie je dos\u0165 citliv\u00fd, nevie nahradi\u0165 ch\u00fdbaj\u00facu mamu, a die\u0165a sa mu \u010dasom boj\u00ed o mnoh\u00fdch veciach hovori\u0165… \u2013 ak je to matka: matka sa sna\u017e\u00ed pr\u00edli\u0161 syna ochra\u0148ova\u0165 \u2013 nie iba v zmysle ochrany pred in\u00fdmi de\u0165mi, no i pred zodpovednos\u0165ou: syn nie\u010do vykon\u00e1 zle, a matka sa ho sna\u017e\u00ed zbavi\u0165 zodpovednosti \u2013 nie trestu, zodpovednosti! Mal\u00fd chlapec sa mus\u00ed nau\u010di\u0165 poveda\u0165 si ,,mus\u00edm\u201c, mus\u00ed vedie\u0165, \u017ee jeho \u010diny maj\u00fa svoje n\u00e1sledky, za ktor\u00e9 v\u017edy nesie zodpovednos\u0165 Aby zo syna vyr\u00e1stol zodpovedn\u00fd, sebavedom\u00fd a schopn\u00fd mu\u017e, potrebuje slobodu, potrebuje ma\u0165 povinnosti, potrebuje vedie\u0165, \u017ee za v\u0161etky svoje skutky nesie zodpovednos\u0165, a hlavne: potrebuje pri sebe mu\u017ea, najlep\u0161ie otca \u2013 \u017eena z chlapca chlapa nevychov\u00e1. Mal\u00e9 chlap\u010da vid\u00ed v otcovi cie\u013e: raz chcem vedie\u0165 \u0161of\u00e9rova\u0165 tak ako tatko; raz chcem by\u0165 tak\u00fd siln\u00fd ako takto; raz chcem vedie\u0165 tak tancova\u0165 ako m\u00f4j tatko… \u010eal\u0161\u00edm ru\u0161iv\u00fdm \u010dinite\u013eom pri formovan\u00ed mlad\u00e9ho mu\u017ea je elektronika. Vari nesta\u010d\u00ed synovi, ke\u010f sa s po\u010d\u00edta\u010dom \u010di mobilom zozn\u00e1mi a\u017e pred t\u00fdm, ako m\u00e1 nast\u00fapi\u0165 do \u0161koly (ktor\u00e1 je,,informatizovan\u00e1\u201c u\u017e od prvej triedy)? Nesta\u010d\u00ed ho sn\u00e1\u010f p\u00e1r mesiacov pred n\u00e1stupom do \u0161koly obozn\u00e1mi\u0165 s pr\u00e1cou v z\u00e1kladn\u00fdch po\u010d\u00edta\u010dov\u00fdch programoch, \u010di s prihlasovan\u00edm sa do a vyu\u017e\u00edvan\u00edm internetu? Nie? Od mali\u010dka sa m\u00e1 namiesto hra\u010diek preb\u00fadzaj\u00facich jemn\u00fa motoriku r\u00fak hra\u0165 so svietiacim displejom tabletu, do ktor\u00e9ho neohrabane \u0165uk\u00e1 nemotorn\u00fdm prstom? Od mali\u010dka si m\u00e1 krivi\u0165 chrbticu, sediac na pohovke s mobilom v jeho mali\u010dk\u00fdch r\u00fa\u010dkach?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ako z chlapca vychova\u0165 chlapa? By\u0165 mu vzorom!","item":"https:\/\/www.remivar.sk\/ako-z-chlapca-vychovat-chlapa-byt-mu-vzorom\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]